How To Stop jealousy in Your Relationship or Marriage...

How To Stop jealousy in Your Relationship or Marriage...


Hi all

So let's get started with today's lesson...

One thing that we've discovered in helping people like you with
jealousy issues in their lives is that it takes two to create this
situation and both people have to take responsibility for having
jealousy as an issue in the relationship.

It's been our experience that both people need to make
the commitment to heal the issue in order for the relationship to
become all it can be.

We know what you're saying right now...

"I know it's a problem but it's his/her problem--not mine."

While it is true that you are not the jealous one, it is a problem
in your life and you probably want it to change or you wouldn't be
reading these messages. Even though you aren't the jealous one, you
have to take responsibility and make the commitment to healing it in
your life.

After working with hundreds of individuals and couples to help them
overcome jealousy, we can absolutely tell you one thing about
overcoming jealousy...

Without taking responsibility for having the issue and making the
commitment to healing it, your partner's jealousy will never go away.
It will just continue to hurt like pouring salt into an open wound
until you make the decision to once and for all do something about it.

Today's "assignment" is to write down how you can take
responsibility for helping to create this situation.

In your "bird's eye view" exploration and looking at your
feelings and actions, did you see anything that you could do
differently when your partner
becomes jealous?

This certainly is not to "blame" you for the jealousy but to simply
begin looking at how you can begin to make changes that will help
heal your relationship.

In the coming lessons, we'll be giving you specific ways to make
changes in your relationship but for now, decide to take your share
of the responsibility for your relationship.

Again, thanks for requesting these sample lessons on overcoming
jealousy and know that by choosing to go through this material, you
have taken a big step toward making positive changes in your life!

Blessings,

Susie and Otto Collins